Sunday, February 15, 2026
Menu Plan: Quinquagesima, Mardi Gras, and Ash Wednesday

We are not aligned with the East in our fast this year. We begin about five days before them this year, because we begin on Ash Wednesday, midweek. Quinquagesima is the 50th day before the Paschal feast for us in the West. We continue to pray, that both East and West will unite to celebrate together every year. The practices of Ash Wednesday are so profound, as are those of Forgiveness Sunday, and I hope that eventually the Church will get her act together and find a way to bring them together in all ways.
I've explained before that xerophagy is the accurate term for Lenten fasting. It means dry eating. We restrict meat, fish, dairy, eggs, oil and wine, which means our food is not as lubricated as normal. There are two strict fast days (no food or nutritive drink) in the West, Ash Wednesday and Good Friday. There is an optional strict fast from the evening after the Maundy Thursday service through the end of the Paschal Vigil. In the East, the first week of Lent, from Clean Monday through their vespers service on Wednesday is supposed to be as strict a fast as possible, with the guidance of a spiritual father or mother, and they share the same Triduum fasting, I believe. Aside from that, the earliest rule of the Church is to eat no meat, no fish (with the exception of shellfish - and because of the expense, we eat them sparingly), no dairy or eggs, no olive oil (all oil in a few jurisdictions), no wine (or alcohol). On Saturdays and Sundays, the rule is relaxed to include olive oil and wine, and on a few significant feast days we are able to eat fish, and one day caviar is permitted (Lazarus Saturday, the day before Palm Sunday, with fish eggs acting as a shadow of the eggs associated with the Resurrection). In the West, we celebrate Laetare Sunday about midway through the fast, and on that day we also eat dairy and egg. None of this is to imply that eating or that any of these foods are bad. They are good things from which we abstain as a discipline to train ourselves, following the example and teaching of our Lord.
This is worship. Worship throughout the Bible, Old Testament and New, always means sacrifice. It is not prayer, though that usually accompanies it. It is not singing hymns and songs, though they may also accompany it. It is not homilies or sermons, though they are edifying. It is sacrifice. The sacrifice that Christ offered for us once for all that we join into in the Eucharist. The sacrifice of something good for our own good in fasting. In the West, penance is emphasized, and while this is absolutely a part of our Lenten journey, fasting, praying, and almsgiving are seen more as a discipline Christ gives us through the Church to grow us spiritually. Young children, the elderly, those who have serious medical conditions, those who are hospitalized, pregnant and nursing women, are all exempt. There is no make-up required for these people. Their fast is considered complete. In all cases, fasting or not, we are to keep our eyes on our own plate. We are not to concern ourselves with how someone else is keeping the fast, unless that person is asking us for assistance or support.
This year, we have drawn down our diet a little more like the East does, so last week was our final week with meat, and this week holds our final few days with fish, eggs and dairy. Because our Sunday evenings are shared with an Anglican parish where we assist, there will be some Sundays with non-Lenten foods, and we will simply thank God for those breaks and enjoy them. I share our meals to encourage and help you to keep this worship. It is a training for ourselves, and an offering we give to God. Like all of these gifts, it is something He gives us first, which we then offer back to Him.
As we prepare for Lent, we must prepare for self-examination. So, in that frame of mind, if I have offended you or wronged you in any way, please forgive me and pray for me, a sinner. As for you readers, I pray that this will be a profitable and Holy Lent for you, however you observe it. Please pray for us, as well. Have a blessed fast.
- Sunday - Quinquagesima
Breakfast: Apple Bourbon French Toast, Milk and Coffee
Dinner: Church Family bringing Pork Shoulder, Parish bringing Side Dishes/Salads/Fruit/Desserts - Monday
Breakfast: Arabic Cheeses and Bread, Sliced Cucumbers and Olives, Fruit, Milk and Coffee
Dinner: Fish Tacos, Radish Salsa, Coleslaw, Strawberry Mango Salad with Lime Dressing - Tuesday - Mardi Gras (Fat Tuesday)
Breakfast: Scrambled Eggs and Toast, Fruit Plate, Milk and Coffee
Dinner: Paneer Mussallam, Rice, Fassoliya, Louqaimat, Fastnacht Kreppel Filled with Cherry Jelly, Fritule - Wednesday - Ash Wednesday
Dinner: Tahina and Date Syrup Sandwich with Sliced Oranges for Nejat - Thursday
Breakfast: Black Bean and Sweet Potato Breakfast Burritos, Fruit, Tea with Honey
Dinner: El Bulli Bean Soup, Bread, Fruit Plate - Friday
Breakfast: Peanut Butter Toast with Honey, Fruit, Tea with Honey
Dinner: Sheet Pan Chow Mein, Green Salad with Sesame Citrus Dressing, Mandarin Oranges - Saturday
Breakfast: Mana'eesh*, Sliced Cucumbers and Tomatoes, Sliced Pears, Coffee, and Tea with Honey
Dinner: Moroccan Spiced Vegeable Soup with Cous Cous, Lenten Bougatsa me Krema

Labels: Ash Wednesday, Church Year, Faith and Morality, Family, Fasting as a Family, Homemaking, Keeping the Feast, Lent, Mardi Gras, Menu Plans, Quinquagesima, Tales from the Kitchen
Sunday, March 02, 2025
Menu Plan: Quinquagesima (Forgiveness Sunday), Mardi Gras, and Ash Wednesday

These are the last moments of meat for us in the West. Today is Forgiveness Sunday in the East, also known as Cheesefare Sunday (farewell to dairy). The Eastern Church will begin Lent tomorrow. We have a couple more days, because we begin on Ash Wednesday, midweek. Quinquagesima is the 50th day before the Paschal feast for us in the West. We celebrate together this year, glory to God, and we continue to pray, that both East and West will unite to celebrate together every year. The practices of Ash Wednesday are so profound, as are those of Forgiveness Sunday, and I hope that eventually the Church will get her act together and find a way to bring them together in all ways.
I've explained before that xerophagy is the accurate term for Lenten fasting. It means dry eating. We restrict meat, fish, dairy, eggs, oil and wine, which means our food is not as lubricated as normal. There are two strict fast days (no food or nutritive drink) in the West, Ash Wednesday and Good Friday. There is an optional strict fast from the evening after the Maundy Thursday service through the end of the Paschal Vigil. In the East, the first week of Lent, from Clean Monday through their vespers service on Wednesday is supposed to be as strict a fast as possible, with the guidance of a spiritual father or mother, and they share the same Triduum fasting, I believe. Aside from that, the earliest rule of the Church is to eat no meat, no fish (with the exception of shellfish - and because of the expense, we eat them sparingly), no dairy or eggs, no olive oil (all oil in a few jurisdictions), no wine (or alcohol). On Saturdays and Sundays, the rule is relaxed to include olive oil and wine, and on a few significant feast days we are able to eat fish, and one day caviar is permitted (Lazarus Saturday, the day before Palm Sunday, with fish eggs acting as a shadow of the eggs associated with the Resurrection). In the West, we celebrate Laetare Sunday about midway through the fast, and on that day we also eat dairy and egg. None of this is to imply that eating or that any of these foods are bad. They are good things from which we abstain as a discipline to train ourselves, following the example and teaching of our Lord.
This is worship. Worship throughout the Bible, Old Testament and New, always means sacrifice. It is not prayer, though that usually accompanies it. It is not singing hymns and songs, though they may also accompany it. It is not homilies or sermons, though they are edifying. It is sacrifice. The sacrifice that Christ offered for us once for all that we join into in the Eucharist. The sacrifice of something good for our own good in fasting. In the West, penance is emphasized, and while this is absolutely a part of our Lenten journey, fasting, praying, and almsgiving are seen more as a discipline Christ gives us through the Church to grow us spiritually. Young children, the elderly, those who have serious medical conditions, those who are hospitalized, pregnant and nursing women, are all exempt. There is no make-up required for these people. Their fast is considered complete. In all cases, fasting or not, we are to keep our eyes on our own plate. We are not to concern ourselves with how someone else is keeping the fast, unless that person is asking us for assistance or support.
Because we serve an Anglican parish on Sundays, we will be relaxing the fasting on Sundays to permit fish, as the parishioners are not required to keep the stricter fasting rules, so you will sometimes see fish on those days. My posts here about how we fast are not meant to show off, they are meants to show the reality of how we live our faith, and (I hope) to give encouragement and meal ideas to those seeking them. Now that all of our children are old enough to keep most or all of the fast, we are trying to live out the Lenten Rule more closely. Nejat is young enough not to be required to keep the fast, so we make sure we plan for her to eat on strict fast days, should she choose that, and she knows that she can eat foods that we cannot if we want to avoid wasting food or if she needs it. However, even she attempts to fast with the Church with us.
As we prepare for Lent, we must prepare for self-examination. So, in that frame of mind, if I have offended you or wronged you in any way, please forgive me and pray for me, a sinner. As for you readers, I pray that this will be a profitable and Holy Lent for you, however you observe it. Please pray for us, as well. Have a blessed fast.
- Sunday - Quinquagesima and Forgiveness Sunday
Breakfast: Trapeza after Liturgy
Dinner: Lengua Tacos, Salsa and Mexican Crema, Cabbage and Carrot Slaw, Sides/Salads/Desserts brought by Parish - Monday
Breakfast: Scrambled Eggs with Cheese, Sausages, Biscuits (GF for Jerome), Grapefruit, Milk and Coffee
Dinner: Koubbeh, Iraqi Koubbat Battatas (safe for Jerome), Taratoor, Harissa, Green Salad with Feta and Lemon Vinaigrette, Fruit Plate - Tuesday - Mardi Gras (Fat Tuesday)
Breakfast: Cheese Toast with Crudités, Sliced Apples, Milk and Coffee
Dinner: Leftovers followed by Treats brought by our Friends, Louqaimat, Fastnacht Kreppel Filled with Pomegranate Jelly, Gluten Free Apple Fritters, Fritule - Wednesday - Ash Wednesday
Dinner: Tahina and Date Syrup Sandwich with Sliced Oranges for Nejat - Thursday
Breakfast: Peanut Butter Toast, Sliced Apples (Peanut Butter on Apple Slices for Jerome), Tea with Honey
Dinner: Vegetarian Bissilla* and Rice, Shatta, Salad, Sliced Blood Oranges - Friday - Feast of Saints Perpetua and Felicity
Breakfast: Scrambled Chickpeas, Sliced Cucumbers, Olives, Toast, Sliced Oranges, Tea with Honey
Dinner: Black Bean Chili, Chopped Onions, Cilantro, Avocado and Jalapeno, Fried Corn Tortilla Strips, Fruit Plate - Saturday
Breakfast: Potato Hash Burritos with Salsa, Sliced Apples, Coffee and Tea
Dinner: Mejeddarah with Crisp Onions, Toum, Fruit Plate
Labels: Church Year, Faith and Morality, Family, Fasting as a Family, Homemaking, Keeping the Feast, Lent, Mardi Gras, Menu Plans, Quinquagesima, Tales from the Kitchen
Sunday, February 11, 2024
Menu Plan: Quinquagesima, Mardi Gras, and Ash Wednesday

These are the last moments of meat for us. Quinquagesima is the 50th day before the Paschal feast for us in the West. Sadly, the East and West are as far apart as is possible this year, but one day, we continue to pray, that both East and West will unite to celebrate together every year. The practices of Ash Wednesday are so profound, as are those of Forgiveness Sunday, and I hope that eventually the Church will get her act together and find a way to bring them together in all ways. At present, the next time we will celebrate together is 2025. Glory to God!
In the meantime, we are continuing to eat up meat and fish and dairy to empty our fridge and freezer a bit to make room for our Lenten discipline. Because of the difference between East and West and the upcoming wedding events, our fast is a little weird this week and next. We have a lot of preparations to take care of for the wedding, so we are not hosting our traditional doughnut Mardi Gras party. There are wedding goings on, and we will not be fasting this weekend because of that. We are also trying to eat up any perishable non-Lenten foods before Wednesday. Any non-Lenten foods we have left after Mardi Gras that can be frozen will be, and any that cannot be will be given to Nejat to eat this week. Then we will begin our xerophagy in earnest.
I've explained before that xerophagy is the accurate term for Lenten fasting. It means dry eating. We restrict meat, fish, dairy, eggs, oil and wine, which means our food is not as lubricated as normal. There are two strict fast days (no food or nutritive drink) in the West, Ash Wednesday and Good Friday. There is an optional strict fast from the evening after the Maundy Thursday service through the end of the Paschal Vigil. In the East, the first week of Lent, from Clean Monday through their vespers service on Wednesday is supposed to be as strict a fast as possible, with the guidance of a spiritual father or mother, and they share the same Triduum fasting, I believe. Aside from that, the earliest rule of the Church is to eat no meat, no fish (with the exception of shellfish - and because of the expense, we eat them sparingly), no dairy or eggs, no olive oil (all oil in a few jurisdictions), no wine (or all alcohol in some jurisdictions). On Saturdays and Sundays, the rule is relaxed to include olive oil and wine, and on a few significant feast days we are able to eat fish, and one day caviar is permitted (Lazarus Saturday, the day before Palm Sunday, with fish eggs acting as a shadow of the eggs associated with the Resurrection). None of this is to imply that eating or that any of these foods are bad. They are good things from which we abstain as a discipline to train ourselves, following the example and teaching of our Lord.
This is worship. Worship throughout the Bible, Old Testament and New, always means sacrifice. It is not prayer, though that usually accompanies it. It is not singing hymns and songs, though they may also accompany it. It is not homilies or sermons, though they are edifying. It is sacrifice. The sacrifice that Christ offered for us once for all that we join into in the Eucharist. The sacrifice of something good for our own good in fasting. In the West, penance is emphasized, and while this is absolutely a part of our Lenten journey, fasting, praying, and almsgiving, are seen more as a discipline Christ gives us through the Church to grow us spiritually. Young children, the elderly, those who have serious medical conditions, those who are hospitalized, pregnant and nursing women, are all exempt. There is no make-up required for these people. Their fast is considered complete. In all cases, fasting or not, we are to keep our eyes on our own plate. We are not to concern ourselves with how someone else is keeping the fast, unless that person is asking us for assistance or support. Because we serve an Anglican parish on Sundays, we will be relaxing the fasting on Sundays to permit fish, as the parishioners are not required to keep the stricter fasting rules, so you will see fish on those days sometimes. My posts here about how we fast are not meant to show off, they are meants to show the reality of how we live our faith, and to (I hope) give encouragement and meal ideas to those seeking them. Now that all of our children are old enough to keep most or all of the fast, we are trying to live out the Lenten Rule more closely. Nejat is still pretty young and not required to keep the fast, so we make sure we plan for her to eat on strict fast days, should she choose that, and she knows that she can eat foods that we cannot if we want to avoid wasting food or if she needs it. However, even she attempts to fast with the Church with us.
As we prepare for Lent, we must prepare for self-examination. So, in that frame of mind, if I have offended you or wronged you in any way, please forgive me and pray for me, a sinner. As for you readers, I pray that this will be a profitable and Holy Lent for you, however you observe it. Please pray for us, as well. Have a blessed fast.
- Sunday - Quinquagesima
Breakfast: Biscuits and Sausage Gravy, Fruit Plate, Coffee and Milk
Dinner: Pork and Chile Burritos, Mexican Rice, Black Beans with Corn and Tomatoes, Hot Sauces, Green Salad - Monday
Breakfast: Leftovers, Milk and Coffee
Dinner: BLTs, French Fries, Pickles, Fruit Plate - Tuesday - Mardi Gras (Fat Tuesday) and Feast of Saint Martinian of Palestine
Breakfast: Homemade Cheese and Veggie Platter with Olive Oil and Za'atar, Toast, Fruit, Milk and Coffee
Dinner: Pancakes with Chantilly Cream and Raspberry Preserves, Sausages, Ice Cream - Wednesday - Ash Wednesday
Dinner: Possibly a Tahina and Date Syrup Sandwich with Sliced Oranges for Nejat - Thursday - Feast of Saint Onesimus
Breakfast: Potato and Vegetable Hash Burritos with Salsa, Sliced Oranges, Tea with Honey
Dinner: North African Style Vegetables, Rice, Green Salad, Fruit Plate - Friday
Breakfast: Peanut Butter Toast, Sliced Apples, Tea with Honey
Dinner: Croatian Roux Soup with Croutons, Green Salad, Fruit Plate - Saturday
Breakfast: Cereal, Fruit, Tea and Coffee
Dinner: Thai Food with Family
Labels: Church Year, Faith and Morality, Family, Fasting as a Family, Homemaking, Keeping the Feast, Lent, Mardi Gras, Menu Plans, Prayer Requests, Quinquagesima, Tales from the Kitchen
Sunday, February 19, 2023
Menu Plan: Quinquagesima (Judgment Sunday), Mardi Gras, and Ash Wednesday

These are the last moments of meat for us and for the East. Today is Judgment Sunday in the East, also known as Meatfare Sunday (which has the same meaning as carnival - carnivale - farewell to meat/flesh). The Eastern Church will not have any meat from tonight through the Paschal feast. We have a couple more days, because we begin on Ash Wednesday, midweek. Quinquagesima is the 50th day before the Paschal feast for us in the West. Sadly, the East and West are a week apart again this year, but one day, we continue to pray, that both East and West will unite to celebrate together every year. The practices of Ash Wednesday are so profound, as are those of Forgiveness Sunday, and I hope that eventually the Church will get her act together and find a way to bring them together in all ways. At present, the next time we will celebrate together is 2025. Glory to God!
In the meantime, we are continuing to eat up meat and fish and dairy to empty our fridge and freezer a bit to make room for our Lenten discipline. We will have our doughnut night on Tuesday, as is our custom, and now that our children are much older, just about everone is fasting on Ash Wednesday. I will be preparing a light dinner for Nejat (and Mariam, if she needs to break the fast earlier), but it will be quite simple. Any non-Lenten foods we have left after Mardi Gras that can be frozen will be, and any that cannot be will be given to Nejat to eat this week. Then we will begin our xerophagy in earnest.
I've explained before that xerophagy is the accurate term for Lenten fasting. It means dry eating. We restrict meat, fish, dairy, eggs, oil and wine, which means our food is not as lubricated as normal. There are two strict fast days (no food or nutritive drink) in the West, Ash Wednesday and Good Friday. There is an optional strict fast from the evening after the Maundy Thursday service through the end of the Paschal Vigil. In the East, the first week of Lent, from Clean Monday through their vespers service on Wednesday is supposed to be as strict a fast as possible, with the guidance of a spiritual father or mother, and they share the same Triduum fasting, I believe. Aside from that, the earliest rule of the Church is to eat no meat, no fish (with the exception of shellfish - because of the expense, we eat them sparingly), no dairy or egg, no olive oil (all oil in a few jurisdictions), no wine. On Saturdays and Sundays, the rule is relaxed to include olive oil and wine, and on a few significant feast days we are able to eat fish, and one day on which caviar is permitted (Lazarus Saturday, the day before Palm Sunday, as fish eggs acting as a shadow of the eggs associated with the Resurrection). None of this is to imply that eating or that any of these foods are bad. They are good things from which we abstain as a discipline to train ourselves, following the example and teaching of our Lord. In the West, penance is emphasized, and while this is absolutely a part of our Lenten journey, fasting, praying, and almsgiving, are seen more as a discipline Christ gives us through the Church to grow us spiritually. Young children, the elderly, those who have serious medical conditions, those who are hospitalized, pregnant and nursing women, are all exempt. There is no make-up required for these people. Their fast is considered complete. In all cases, fasting or not, we are to keep our eyes on our own plate. We are not to concern ourselves with how someone else is keeping the fast, unless that person is asking us for assistance or support. Because we serve an Anglican parish on Sundays, we will be relaxing the fasting on Sundays to permit fish, as the parishioners are not required to keep the stricter fasting rules, so you will see fish on those days sometimes.
As we prepare for Lent, we must prepare for self-examination. So, in that frame of mind, if I have offended you or wronged you in any way, please forgive me and pray for me, a sinner. As for you readers, I pray that this will be a profitable and Holy Lent for you, however you observe it. Please pray for us, as well. Have a blessed fast.
- Sunday - Quinquagesima
Breakfast: Fried Eggs with Smoked Porkchops, Sliced Apples, Milk and Coffee
Dinner: Ham and Beans, Cornbread, Chopped Salad, Tagalong Bars - Monday
Breakfast: Scrambled Egg and Cheese Burritos, Fruit Plate, Milk and Coffee
Dinner: Chicken Fried Steak with Cream Gravy, Biscuits, Steam Sautéed Carrots and Peas with Garlic and Dill, Dark Chocolate Cherry Cookies - Tuesday - Mardi Gras (Fat Tuesday)
Breakfast: Arabic Cheese and Veggie Platter with Olive Oil and Za'atar, Toast, Fruit, Milk and Coffee
Dinner: Beef and Vegetable Pot Pies, Treats brought by our Friends, Louqaimat, Fastnacht Kreppel, Ricotta Fritters with Maple Syrup, Fritule - Wednesday - Ash Wednesday
Dinner: Tahina and Date Syrup Sandwich with Sliced Oranges for Nejat - Thursday - Feast of Saint Polycarp
Breakfast: Scrambled Chickpeas with Vegetables, Toast, Fruit Plate, Tea with Honey
Dinner: Charred Eggplant with Chermoula (using sunflower oil), Arabic Style Rice Pilaf (using safflower oil), Green Salad, Fruit Plate - Friday - Feast of Saint Matthias
Breakfast: Peanut Butter Toast, Sliced Apples, Tea with Honey
Dinner: Shorbat 'Addas, Tamis (both made with sunflower oil), Fruit Plate - Saturday
Breakfast: Ful, Tomato, Radish, and Onion Relish, Kalamata Olives, Bread, Sliced Apples, Coffee
Dinner: Pasta Trappanese, Green Salad, Fruit Plate
Labels: Church Year, Faith and Morality, Family, Governor Inslee Needs a Frozen Fish to the Forehead, Homemaking, Lent, Mardi Gras, Menu Plans, Quinquagesima, Tales from the Kitchen
Sunday, February 27, 2022
Menu Plan: Quinquagesima, Mardi Gras, and Ash Wednesday

We in the West are in the last few days before Lent. Quinquagesima is the fiftieth day before the Paschal feast. Sadly, again, we are a week off from our brethren in the East. One of our deepest prayers is for reunion of East and West, and fixing the Paschal feast date so that we celebrate it together always! The next time we will do that is in 2025. We've been cleaning out most of the non-Lenten foods in the house and I have done most of our Lenten preparatory shopping. Tuesday, we will be having our traditional doughnut feast. The fast officially begins for us on Ash Wednesday, and since the dietary rule for that day is nor food or nutritive drink, the only meals that day will be for our youngest two girls. Three years ago, I learned that the fast is properly called a xerophagy, which means dry eating or dry food. Eating without meat and fish and dairy and egg results in "dry" eating. So if you need a Scrabble word, there are two for you!
My posts here about how we fast are not meant to show off, they are meants to show the reality of how we live our faith, and to (I hope) give encouragement and meal ideas to those seeking them. Now that all of our children are old enough to keep most or all of the fast, we are trying to live out the Lenten Rule more closely. This means no meat, fish, dairy, egg, olive oil (except on Saturdays, Sundays, and specific feast days), or wine/alcohol (except on Saturdays, Sundays, and specific feast days). Shellfish is permitted, but since it tends to be more expensive, especially lately, it will appear sparingly. Our meals will be within that rule, for the most part, though we will relax the rule a little for Sundays, when we will eat fish, as well as during some major feast days when that is permitted, anyway. We do have some birthdays within Lent and, not wanting to embitter our children, we have either allowed them to break the fast that day, or celebrated with a Lenten, but festive, meal and dessert. Since those with birthdays in Lent are or were nearly adults, they have chosen to stick with the Lenten and festive, for the past couple years. We want to accustom our children to striving to live in this way, just as we have our youngest fast from one meal or two meals as they are able on strict fast days in which the older family members are not eating at all. This is how we both practice our faith and teach our children to practice their faith. Just as we have grown in this practice, we teach them to do so as well. We struggle within our strength and try to keep our eyes on our own plate (and that of our young children). So, even though Ash Wednesday is a strict fast, our youngest two will be eating one or two light meals still, and if we have any non-Lenten food left by then, they can consume them for us this week or next.
As we prepare for Lent, we must prepare for self-examination, in that frame of mind, if I have offended you or wronged you in any way, please forgive me and pray for me, a sinner. As for you readers, I pray that this will be a profitable and Holy Lent for you, however you observe it. Please pray for us, as well. Have a blessed fast.
- Sunday - Quinquagesima
Breakfast: Labneh on Toast (Gluten-free for Jerome), Sliced Cucumbers, Olives, Fried Pastrami, Mandarin Oranges, Milk and Coffee
Dinner: Navy Beans with Ham, Rice, Herb Bread, Salad, Fruit - Monday
Breakfast: Scrambled Egg and Cheese Burritos, Grapefruit Halves, Milk and Coffee
Dinner: Grilled Hot Dogs, Macaroni and Cheese, Oranges - Tuesday - Mardi Gras (Fat Tuesday)
Breakfast: Fried Eggs and Sausages, Sliced Apples, Milk and Coffee
Dinner: French Onion Soup, Chex Mix, Treats brought by our Friends, Louqaimat, Fastnacht Kreppel, Poderane Gaće, Fritule, Pear Fritters (made Gluten and Dairy-free for Jerome), Eggnog (Dairy-free for Jerome) - Wednesday - Ash Wednesday (Strict Fast - our youngest two will be eating one or two small meals)
Breakfast: Toast, Banana, Tea with Honey
Dinner: Dates, Walnut Bread, Crudités - Thursday - Feast of Saint Matthias the Apostle
Breakfast: Asparagus, Chard and Chickpea "Scramble", Toast (Gluten-free for Jerome), Bananas (Grapefruit for Jerome), Coffee
Dinner: Vegetarian Ranchero Beans, Salsa Rice, Chopped Salad, Oranges - Friday
Breakfast: Peanut Butter Toast (Gluten-free for Jerome) with Honey, Sliced Apples, Tea and Honey
Dinner: Slow Cooker North African Vegetable Tagine, Rice, Fruit Plate - Saturday
Breakfast: Lenten Pancakes, Fluffy Gluten-Free and Vegan Peanut Butter Pancakes with Raspberry Syrup for Jerome, Tea or Coffee
Dinner: Brazilian Shrimp Soup, Roasted Asparagus, Fruit Plate
Labels: Church Year, Faith and Morality, Family, Governor Inslee Needs a Frozen Fish to the Forehead, Homemaking, Lent, Mardi Gras, Menu Plans, Quinquagesima, Special Diet, Tales from the Kitchen
Sunday, February 14, 2021
Menu Plan: Quinquagesima, Mardi Gras, and Ash Wednesday

With the snow and road conditions, it is looking like we will be missing church. It was supposed to stop snowing three hours ago, and it is still going strong. Our roads are some of the last plowed, and church is on a hilly stretch of road from here, as well as down hill from town.
What a week we have! This is the fiftieth day before the Paschal feast for us in the West, that's what that big name up there means. The past two weeks were also part of our pre-Lenten season, so we actually overlapped our Christmas and Lenten observance this year. That they exist points to the validity of the Eastern practice of meatfare and cheesefare, the counting down to Lent, and preparatory season of giving up parts of our diet, little by little, rather than all at once. It also teaches those of us in the West that the practice of giving up not only meat, but fish, dairy, eggs, wine, and oil, are part of the earlier practice of the Church. Even the shrivening of milk, butter, oil and eggs in pancakes or doughnuts that are a common meal for Shrove Tuesday (Fat Tuesday, Mardi Gras) indicates that practice to us.
Our family still has people in it who are not required to keep the whole fast, and so we make allowances and don't keep the strictest fast. If we are with those who do not know better and are serving us food, we try to keep the fast as best we can, but we don't make a point of telling them off and refusing to eat if there is nothing we can lawfully consume. On the other hand, we try not to go out or eat out or attend parties during this time, so we aren't in that position in the first place. We struggle within our strength and try to keep our eyes on our own plate (and that of our young children). I have found myself more and more irritated and agitated on social media, so though I will still be posting here and Instagram, I think I will take a break from Facebook for a little while.
My posts here about how we fast are not meant to be holier than thou or preachy, they are to show the reality of how we live out our faith, and to (I hope) give encouragement and meal ideas to those seeking them. There will be some meals that include dairy or eggs during Lent, and we relax the restrictions quite a bit on Sundays, though I try to keep it from being too reckless. However, we will eat meat on many Sundays in Lent, usually excluding it entirely, and keeping the strictest fast, from Palm Sunday through all of Holy Week (as we do for the meals we have this first partial week). We do have some birthdays within Lent, and we have not wanted to embitter our children to the teachings of the Church and have either allowed them to break the fast that day, or celebrated with a Lenten, but festive, meal and dessert. We try to keep the strict fasts on Wednesdays and Fridays, as two days a week will not put anyone at risk, and we want to accustom our children to striving to live in this way, just as we have them fast from one meal or two meals as they are able on strict fast days in which the older family members are not eating at all. This is how we both practice our faith and teach our children to practice their faith. Just as we have grown in this practice, we teach them to do so as well.
Poor Jerome is having to go on a grain free and sugar free diet for 60 days, so he is beginning on Ash Wednesday. At first, he thought it wouldn't be too bad, until he realized that the Paschal feast would be within that 60 days. He asked me to freeze some of the special foods we make so he can have them after the diet, and I have worked out how to make a some of them in a way that he can eat them that day. He was rather upset when I suggested that he take the diet as his fast and that he eat meat during Lent, so we are going to increase his fish and dairy and egg, and he will still eat meatless otherwise, and we will give him alternatives to the grains/pastas/etc that we eat during the fast. I did pick up some cauliflower rice, some vegetable "pasta," and some monkfruit sweetener so he can try to eat some of the things we do, with different side dishes, sweeten his tea and so on. This adds a little more of a challenge to our Lenten observances this year, but he and I are working out a plan.
As for you readers, I pray that this will be a profitable and Holy Lent for you, however you observe it. Please pray for us, as well.
- Sunday
Breakfast: Migas with Avocado, Salsa, Sour Cream and Chopped Jalapeños, Fruit Plate, Milk and Coffee
Dinner: Dutch Style Meatballs, Hutspot, Coleslaw, Pomegranate and Poppyseed Thumbprints - Monday
Breakfast: Biscuits, Sausage Gravy, Sliced Oranges, Milk and Coffee
Dinner: Pepperoni Pizza, Salad, Triple Chocolate Peppermint Sandwiches, Peppermint Meltaways - Tuesday - Mardi Gras
Breakfast: Egg and Cheese Burritos with Salsa and Sour Cream, Sliced Oranges, Milk and Coffee
Dinner: Potato and Poblano Corn Chowder, Louqaimat, German Fastnacht Kreppel*, Poderane Gaće - Wednesday - Ash Wednesday (Strict Fast - the littles will be eating one or two small meals)
Breakfast: Tea with Honey
Dinner: Shorbat 'Addas (made with sunflower oil), Bread - Thursday
Breakfast: Vegetable Hash, Fruit Plate, Coffee
Dinner: Balela (without the optional feta cheese), Tamis (both made with sunflower oil instead of olive oil) - Friday
Breakfast: Peanut Butter Toast with Honey, Sliced Apples (or Sliced Apples spread with Peanut Butter), Tea and Honey
Dinner: Thai Cashew Coconut Rice (or Cauliflower Rice) with Crisp Vegetables, Mandarin Oranges - Saturday
Breakfast: Lenten Pancakes (or Almond Flour Pancakes with Berries and Almond Butter), Sliced Apples, Tea with Honey or Coffee
Dinner: Creamy Avocado Pasta (or Vegetable "Pasta") with Cashews (with Sunflower Oil), Fruit Plate
Labels: Ash Wednesday, Church Year, Faith and Morality, Family, Fasting as a Family, Homemaking, Keeping the Feast, Lent, Mardi Gras, Menu Plans, Quinquagesima, Tales from the Kitchen
Monday, February 24, 2020
Menu Plan: February 23 - 29 (Quinquagesima - Mardi Gras and Ash Wednesday)
We in the west are in the last days before Lent. Sadly, this means we are a week off from our brethren in the east. We've cleaned out most of the non-Lenten foods in the house and I have done most of our Lenten preparatory shopping. Tuesday, we will be having our traditional doughnut feast, too! Even though Ash Wednesday is a strict fast, there are still three kids in our house too young to try to fast the entire day. So, I have some basic meals planned for that day for those who are eating. All of the kids make an attempt of the fast, so those two meals on the list here may be the only things we need to make that day. Because we still have young children at home, we also still sometimes have fish and dairy/eggs, and often, even if we are not eating those foods as a family, we will give them some milk or egg (or yogurt cups for breakfast, for instance). The fast is about struggling within our strength so we will understand how much we need God. If you are not eating that way, obviously ignore those ideas. We still try to keep as close to the full fast as we can on all the days of the week except Sundays, so I hope you do find some suggestions to mix up your meal plans - it can be so hard finding different foods for the fast. Last year I learned that the fast is properly called a xerophagy, which means dry eating or dry food. Eating without meat and fish and dairy and egg results in "dry" eating. So if you need a Scrabble word, there you go!
- Sunday - Quinquagesima - Feast of Saint Polycarp
Breakfast: Scrambled Eggs with Salsa and Tortilla Strips, Milk and Coffee
Dinner: Meats of the World Pizza - Monday - Feast of Saint Matthias the Apostle
Breakfast: Polenta with Maple Syrup, Milk and Coffee
Dinner: Baked Tortiglioni with Italian Sausage, Peppers, Roasted Tomatoes and Garlic, and Mozzarella, Cara Cara Oranges - Tuesday - Fat Tuesday
Breakfast: Migas with Salsa, Milk and Coffee
Dinner: Papas con Chorizo,Yeasted Potato Doughnuts with Lemon GlazeGerman Fastnacht Kreppel, Louqaimat*, Apple Fritters - Wednesday - Ash Wednesday
Breakfast: Peanut Butter Toast, Bananas, Tea with Honey
Dinner: Peanut Noodles and Vegetables, Oranges - Thursday
Breakfast: Steel Cut Oats with Apples, Raisins and Brown Sugar, Coffee
Dinner: Minestrone with Broken Pasta, Garlic Bread, Oranges - Friday
Breakfast: Lemon Blueberry Granola Bars, Bananas, Tea with Honey
Dinner: Chick Pea Shawerma Bowls, Tamis - Saturday
Breakfast: Lenten Pancakes* with Maple Syrup, Milk and Coffee
Dinner: Vegetarian Rouz Bukhari, Batattas Harra, Mediterranean Chopped Salad

Linking to Menu Plan Monday
Labels: Ash Wednesday, Church Year, Faith and Morality, Family, Fasting as a Family, Homemaking, Keeping the Feast, Lent, Mardi Gras, Menu Plans, Tales from the Kitchen
Monday, February 27, 2017
Menu Plan: First Week of Lent

We just got home (less than 24 hours ago) from a fantabulous family vacation. We were able to visit with some good friends, stay at some lovely hotels, eat amazing food, go to Legoland, take over a cooking friend's home, enjoy the sunshine and the beach and the ocean, attend church at a cathedral in our communion, commune with our brothers and sisters and visit with friends there, and then returned home after almost 11 days to the frozen north and snow and ice. Nejat has told us numerous times today that she wants to move to California because there is no snow there.
Glory to God, we did not return to a flooded basement! So, even though we hadn't planned on doing our doughnut night this year, since Shrove Tuesday was only a day after our return, we are going to throw it together, anyway. I'm not sure who will be able to make it, but our kids were rather disappointed to hear that I was skipping it this year.
Lent is upon us, and even though we follow the Western calendar, I am pleased that it coincides with the East this year. May both lungs of the Church be united in our lifetime. If you want a refresher on the Lenten fast, it is a Trinity of fasting, prayer, and almsgiving. We find it better to fast with the Church than to come up with something to give up specifically, though we have done that as well as the fast. Since we have small children, we are not as strict about the fast as we might be otherwise, we still eat dairy and egg, and occasionally fish, and we eat meat on Sundays. Ash Wednesday, Good Friday and Holy Saturday are strict fasts, for at least 24 hours, but we have younger children who may only participate for one or two meals or none at all (in the case of Nejat, for instance), so I still plan meals for those days. We try to keep the stricter rules for Wednesdays and Fridays during Lent, but sometimes cannot do so. However, if you are looking for menu help and meal ideas for Lent, I do post meals and recipes that are meat free.
As we prepare for Lent, we must prepare for self-examination, in that frame of mind, if I have offended you or wronged you in any way, please forgive me and pray for me, a sinner. Have a blessed fast.
- Sunday
Breakfast: Cereal, Bananas, Cocoa and Coffee
Dinner: Pizza at the Airport - Monday
Breakfast: Pancakes with Butter and Blueberry Lemon Preserves, Fried Ham, Milk and Coffee
Dinner: Mexican Spiced Beef and Vegetables with Salsa Rice - Tuesday - Mardi Gras
Breakfast: Scrambled Eggs with Cheese, Toast, Oranges, Milk and Coffee
Dinner: Crock Pot Jambalaya with Shrimp and Andouille Sausage, Rice, Hot Pepper Vinegar, Yeasted Potato Doughnuts with Lemon Glaze, Apple Fritters with Cinnamon Glaze* - Wednesday - Ash Wednesday
Breakfast: Almond Butter Toast, Tangerines, Tea with Honey
Dinner: Besan Chila, Harissa, Cabbage Salad, Fruit Plate - Thursday
Breakfast: Creamed Eggs, Toast Fingers, Oranges, Milk and Coffee
Dinner: Indian Dal Makhani, Garlic Rice, Fruit Plate - Friday
Breakfast: Honey Almond Butter Toast, Tea with Honey
Dinner: Garbanzo Bean Tomato Soup with Orzo, French Bread, Fruit - Saturday
Breakfast: Cherry Almond Granola with Yogurt and Honey, Milk and Coffee
Dinner: Potato Kibbeh, Steam Sauteed Vegetables, Fruit Plate

Labels: Ash Wednesday, Church Year, Family, Homemaking, Lent, Mardi Gras, Menu Plans, Tales from the Kitchen
Monday, February 08, 2016
Menu Plan: Mardi Gras & Ash Wednesday

Lent is upon us in the West. We will begin our Lenten abstinence as well as my own dietary restrictions. Breakfasts may include dairy and egg, for our kids, so if you are keeping the strict fast, they may not be as useful for you. We still will eat fish and use oil and wine, because my own restrictions are my major fast this year, and I don't want to be making multiple dinners. I am always a little uncomfortable sharing how we observe the fast, because it seems so personal, between us, God, and our spiritual fathers. However, I know it's helpful for me to find blogs and websites that share recipes and food ideas, so I do the same.

Before we begin Lent, though, we will be feasting. Our doughnut night is on again this week! It will be my last day of dairy and egg (I may have to break that for one occasion, but will try to avoid it then as well) as well as our family's carnival (carne vale = meat goodbye or farewell to meat in Latin). Unless you have health issues, are very young (under 13 or uncomfirmed), very old, pregnant or nursing, or have specific direction from a spiritual father, the rule of Ash Wednesday (and Good Friday) is to fast completely from food and nutritive drinks (milk, juice, etc) for the whole 24 hours, please keep drinking water. If you cannot keep the whole fast, it is a day of abstinence from meat, and some limiting of meals or portions is recommended. A priest told us that a good guideline was to stop eating before feeling satisfied. Our younger children usually fast from one or two meals before they are old enough/ready to fast completely. We encourage them to fast from breakfast and/or lunch so they can eat before going to bed and if it is too difficult, it is not considered a failure if they eat. This is a physical discipline as well as a spiritual one and it takes training and building to the goal. We do not want this to be burdensome to them, so we have them eat after church, and it still helps them train themselves for the fast when they are older.
We picked up our organic produce boxes from the co-op this weekend, and ordered a big box of minneolas for snacks and to go with our meals. Usually during Lent, we try to get as much produce as possible, since we won't be eating the heavier meals of meat. There were some, out of season for us, blueberries from Chile that we just gobbled up as soon as we got them. We do try to eat seasonally, so unless we have canned, frozen, dried, or otherwise preserved our produce, we don't get a huge variety of it during winter. This isn't a strict rule, but this means that we generally don't have much in the way of fruit during winter (with the exception of citrus). The kids were so excited to have those fresh blueberries, and so were we! In any case, for the first part of this week, we will be having meat and cheese and eggs and sweets, but that will shift on Wednesday. I have planned meals Wednesday for the kids who aren't fasting, but tried to keep it pretty simple and easy to prepare.

- Sunday
Breakfast: Egg Burritos with Hot Sauce, Mandarin Oranges, Coffee
Dinner: Chef Salad with Mustard Vinaigrette - Monday
Breakfast: Peanut Butter Toast with Sliced Apples, Coffee
Dinner: Pan Seared Sirloin Tip Steaks, Roasted Acorn Squash, Buttered Corn, Soda Bread (the recipe is formatted a little oddly, the raisins are optional, not the buttermilk) - Tuesday - Mardi Gras
Breakfast: Sausage and Cheese Biscuits, Minneolas, Coffee
Dinner: Souvlaki, Whole Roasted Cauliflower, Simple Rice Pilaf, Salad, Yeasted Potato Doughnuts - Wednesday - Ash Wednesday
Breakfast: Peanut Butter Toast with Mineolas, Spiced Tea with Honey
Dinner: Hummus with Bread and Sliced Veggies - Thursday
Breakfast: Ful, Green Hot Sauce, Toast, Coffee
Dinner: Creamy Avocado Pasta with Cashews, Salad, Garlic Toast - Friday
Breakfast: Granola and Honey with Yogurt, Coffee
Dinner: Greek Food from a Regional Monastery (we are picking it up while on a field trip, and we knew that they would have tasty Lenten food that I could eat with my own restrictions) - Saturday
Breakfast: Cereal, Fruit, Milk & Coffee
Dinner: Nutball Soup with Fried Tortilla Strips

Labels: Ash Wednesday, Church Year, Family, Good Friday, Homemaking, Lent, Mardi Gras, Menu Plans, Tales from the Kitchen
Monday, February 23, 2015
Menu Plan: First Sunday of Lent

Last week, Rich did something brilliant as we made our doughnuts for Mardi Gras: He stuffed a few of the ftira (just after they were fried) and filled them with organic chocolate truffles (two or three) and rolled the whole thing in powdered sugar. We saved those for the parents at the party.

This was about a quarter of the doughnuts we made. Since Rich had the powdered sugar out already, he dusted some of the other doughnuts with powdered sugar as well.
We were blessed to find a lot of good produce on sale this past week, and even found wild caught (frozen) salmon and cod on sale, for days that we will eat fish. We forgot to pick up the fish, but friend of ours was near the store and got it for us! It was such good timing. We will be getting a nearly 30 pound box of organic apples this week, 25 pounds of organic carrots, and three boxes from our organic produce co-op, plus the deals we found at Grocery Outlet and Fred Meyer.
I don't know what we will do for Alexander's name day on Thursday, but we will be reading more about Saint Alexander of Alexandria at least.
- Sunday Exodus 10-12, Psalms 24:1-11, Proverbs 4:19-23, Matthew 14:22-36
Breakfast: Oatmeal with Leftover Lemon Glaze, Milk and Coffee
Dinner: Roast Chicken, Rice Pilaf, Steam Sauteed Mixed Vegetables - Monday - Feast of Saint Polycarp of Smyrna Exodus 13-15, Psalms 24:12-22, Proverbs 4:24-28, Matthew 15:1-20
Breakfast: Scrambled Eggs, Toast, Bananas, Blood Oranges, Milk and Coffee
Dinner: Araka Me Saltsa* (Greek pea and potato stew with dill and feta), Rice - Tuesday Exodus 16-18, Psalms 25, Proverbs 5:1-6, Matthew 15:21-39
Breakfast: Yogurt and Blackberry Jam, Bananas, Milk and Coffee
Dinner: Borani Kadoo, Brown Rice, Yogurt - Wednesday Exodus 19-21, Psalms 26, Proverbs 5:7-14, Matthew 16
Breakfast: Ful with Chopped Tomatoes, Onions and Jalapenos, Bread, Tea with Honey
Dinner: Besan Chila (a kind of chickpea flour pancake filled with sauteed vegetables), Harissa, Mini Sweet Peppers, Grape Tomatoes - Thursday - Feast of Saint Alexander of Alexandria Exodus 22-24, Psalms 27, Proverbs 5:15-19, Matthew 17
Breakfast: Oatmeal with Pears and Cinnamon Sugar, Milk and Coffee
Dinner: Tacos de Papa, Avocado Relish, Minneolas - Friday Exodus 25-27, Psalms 28, Proverbs 5:20-23, Matthew 18:1-20
Breakfast: Cashew Butter Toast, Apple Sauce, Tea with Honey
Dinner: Potato Kibbeh, Salad, Sliced Pears - Saturday Exodus 28-29, Psalms 29, Proverbs 6:1-6, Matthew 18:21-35
Breakfast: Tunisian Shakshouka (using sweet potatoes), Toast, Sliced Apples, Milk and Coffee
Dinner: Torteggas, Fruit Plate

Labels: Church Year, Faith and Morality, Family, Homemaking, Lent, Mardi Gras, Menu Plans, Name Day, Tales from the Kitchen
Wednesday, February 18, 2015
Yarn Along: Steady Progress

This is the middle of the seventh of eleven repeats of two rows on Amira's shawl. If I have enough yarn, I think I am going to do 12 or 13 repeats. Progress is being made, little by little, but since crochet is not as familiar to me as knitting, I find myself having to redo portions of it pretty frequently. I have basically done no knitting since finishing the baby set for our friends.

This is my February yarn from Paradise Fibers' Yarn Club. It is Abstract Fiber Super Sock + in the exclusive colorway, Pendleton. With it also came a nice little pair of knitters' snips to have handy and a sock pattern. I can think of about a million things besides socks that I'd like to make with this yarn, so it's sure to come up in the next year or so in a project for the kids or for a friend. Madeline Tosh is trying to tempt me out of my non-purchasing plan. The sweater club has begun, and the colors are just great for it. But, I am being strong, and I will not subscribe.
The first edit of Saint Helena is written and I really, really, really need someone to test it. So far, I only have one tester, and I'd rather publish the pattern with a little more input and a few more eyes than that. Please e-mail me or leave a comment with contact information if you are interested. I have a facebook group to add you to if you are able to help me this way, and you can talk to other people working on it as well as me. (And I promise you will get something nice - besides the pair of mitts you make - if you finish them, something even more if you let me use your photo!)
This has been another rather busy week, preparing for Valentine's Day, Mardi Gras, and Ash Wednesday - not to mention getting our kitchen ready for Lent, and trying to prepare our hearts and minds for Lent as well. We held a dance on Saturday, and our traditional doughnut party last night. I wanted to be super spiritual and get more religious reading done, but honestly it was a challenge to do the daily scripture readings. We do have our Lenten book bin out now, as you can see above.

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Labels: Ash Wednesday, Books, Church Year, Crochet, Design, Homemaking, Knitting, Lent, Mardi Gras, Yarn, Yarn Along
Tuesday, February 17, 2015
Menu Plan: February 15-21

I was late on my recipe posting again. I will post the recipe today. We were invited to a neighbor's for lunch on Saturday, and had spent the week putting together a Valentine's dance for our homeschool friends. Which was a blast! We taught foxtrot, merengue, and rhumba, demonstrated swing (since some of the people had experience with that) and danced our little hearts out. We will be holding dances each month.
Now, though, we have arrived at Lent. Tonight we will be feasting on fried things and eating up the last of our candy and chocolate. Since Ash Wednesday is a strict fasting day, the only meals planned that day are for our young children. The only meat meals we'll be planning from here through the Paschal feast will be on Sundays and a couple major feast days during the season. Again, I will be trying to make our Wednesdays and Fridays vegan to increase our level of fasting on those days. So, if you are looking for menu or meal ideas, I hope I can be of help.
- Sunday Genesis 41-42, Psalms 17:33-51, Proverbs 3:17-22, Matthew 10:24-42
Breakfast: Fried Eggs, Toast, Milk and Coffee
Dinner: Cavatappi with The Best Meat Sauce Ever, Salad, Garlic Bread, Pots de Creme with Chocolate Whipped Cream - Monday Genesis 43-45, Psalms 18, Proverbs 3:23-27, Matthew 11
Breakfast: Bacon and Sausage Scramble with Garlic Toast, Sliced Oranges, Milk and Coffee
Dinner: Chorizo, Potato, Corn and Poblano Burritos, with Salsa, Avocados, and Sour Cream - Tuesday Genesis 46-48, Psalms 19, Proverbs 3:28-32, Matthew 12:1-21 - Mardi Gras
Breakfast: Oatmeal with Brown Sugar, Milk and Coffee
Dinner: Corn Dogs, Salad, Lemon Glazed Yeasted Potato Doughnuts, Cinnamon Sugar Tunisian Ftira - Wednesday Genesis 49-50, Psalms 20, Proverbs 3:33-38, Matthew 12:22-50 - Ash Wednesday
Breakfast: Cashew Butter Toast, Fruit Plate, Water
Dinner: Potato, Sweet Potato and Chick Pea Red Curry, Brown Rice - Thursday Exodus 1-3, Psalms 21:1-19, Proverbs 4:1-8, Matthew 13:1-30
Breakfast: Slow Cooker Rice Pudding with Coconut Milk and Craisins, Milk and Coffee
Dinner: Vegetable Soup with Campanelle - Friday Exodus 4:1-6:27, Psalms 21:20-32, Proverbs 4:9-12, Matthew 13:31-58
Breakfast: Cashew Butter Toast, Apple Sauce, Tea with Honey
Dinner: Creamy Avocado Pasta with Cashews*, Tangerines, Mixed Greens with Dressing - Saturday Exodus 6:28-9:35, Psalms 22-23, Proverbs 4:13-18, Matthew 14:1-21
Breakfast: Peanut Butter Pancakes with Maple Syrup, Milk and Coffee
Dinner: Tacos de Papa, Avocado Relish, Fruit Plate

Labels: Ash Wednesday, Church Year, Faith and Morality, Family, Homemaking, Lent, Mardi Gras, Menu Plans, Tales from the Kitchen
Tuesday, March 04, 2014
Feast to Fast

If you are looking for a traditional Ash Wednesday menu, here it is: Water. It is a 24 hour strict fast. The rules have been relaxed in the west (to the point of absurdity), but it is still a strict fast. If you cannot fast, try to fast from one or two meals and eat less. If that is not possible for some reason, this should be a meat abstinence day.
Tonight, we had our traditional fried food extravaganza and doughnut feast. Our last hurrah before the penance and abstinence of Lent begins. The day started with doughnuts (we had some my dad bought and figured it would be a good way to use them up - and I didn't have to make breakfast that way) and ended in fried chicken, onion rings, potato wedges, and doughnuts that we fried ourselves. In some ways, this makes it easier to fast the following day, because who wants to eat after having all of that?
This year, yet again, I will not fully be participating in the fast, as I am nursing a baby. Since my dad is here, as well, we have relaxed our family rule, so menus will include more dairy and egg, perhaps fish, than they normally would have.
Lent is a penitential season. We make sacrifices in our diet, of our time and of our finances. Our dietary changes allow for more money to give to alms, one third of the trinity of the Christian fast. I say this each year: To fast as a Christian is to fast, pray and to give alms. This is the definition of a fast. We do not simply abstain from eating and hope that by doing so we receive grace or earn favor. The fast is a daily reminder of our obligation to pray and care for the poor as well as using physical discipline to lead us to spiritual discipline. I still remember the teaching that all sin is an appetite indulged, so the fast is a way to teach us not to indulge our appetites. Even during the abstinent days of Lent, rather than the full fasts, we are to eat less than we normally would. We are to leave the table a little hungry. I read this somewhere, and I can't remember the source to give credit:
"By abstaining from meat (and dairy), we allow both creation (the animals) to rest from milking or laying and allow nature to rebuild. But more importantly, we embrace the simplicity of eating plainer foods so that we can focus more of our time on Christ. We also allow ourselves to be a little more hungry than normal in order to remember that God is the only one who can truly fill our deepest hunger!"
Although we are not Orthodox, I borrow from their tradition for the eve of Clean Monday: Friends and family, I humbly ask your forgiveness if I have offended you in any way. I bow down to the ground in my heart before each one of you and ask for your forgiveness. I ask forgiveness for having offended, scandalized and sinned against anyone, whether by my words, actions, or thoughts. Forgive me, a sinner. May your journey during this Lenten period lead you to peace, spiritual regeneration, and the joyous Pascha of our Lord.
Blessed Fast.
With Love in Christ.
"If you forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you, but if you forgive not men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses" Mark 6:14-15
I wish you a holy Lent.

"Yet even now," says the LORD, "return to me with all your heart, with fasting, with weeping, and with mourning; and rend your hearts and not your garments." Return to the LORD, your God, for he is gracious and merciful, slow to anger, and abounding in steadfast love, and repents of evil. Who knows whether he will not turn and repent, and leave a blessing behind him, a cereal offering and a drink offering for the LORD, your God? Blow the trumpet in Zion; sanctify a fast; call a solemn assembly; gather the people. Sanctify the congregation; assemble the elders; gather the children, even nursing infants. Let the bridegroom leave his room, and the bride her chamber.
Between the vestibule and the altar let the priests, the ministers of the LORD, weep and say, "Spare thy people, O LORD, and make not thy heritage a reproach, a byword among the nations. Why should they say among the peoples, `Where is their God?'" Joel 2:12-17
Labels: Ash Wednesday, Church Year, Faith and Morality, Family, Lent, Mardi Gras
Sunday, March 02, 2014
Menu Plan Monday: March 2 - 8

I did not get my recipes posted this Saturday, so I'm working on that next. Here is our menu for the week. With my dad here, we have had so much leftover, that we are moving a lot around, and freezing a ton of extras. We are fasting a little more easily this year, with my father visiting, and with me nursing Nejat. We relaxed the rules a bit more than we normally do, so you will see dairy and egg on some Wednesdays and Fridays.
- Sunday Psalm 103, Wisdom 7:7-14, John 15:1-17
Breakfast: Cornbread, Honey Butter, Fruit, Juice, Milk & Coffee
Dinner: Mixed Grilled Meats, Salad, Strawberry Shortcake - Monday Psalm 18:1-20, Genesis 18:1-16, Mark 9:38
Breakfast: Leftovers, Oranges, Juice & Coffee
Dinner: Stir Fry of Leftover Grilled Chicken and Steak with Kale, Garlic, Scallions and Sesame Seeds, Rice, Salad with Sesame Ginger Dressing - Tuesday Psalm 18:21-36, Genesis 18:20, Mark 10:1-16
Breakfast: Whole Wheat and Oat Breakfast Cake, Pomegranates, Milk & Coffee
Dinner: Fried Chicken, Onion Rings, Potato Wedges, Doughnuts* - Wednesday (for those who aren't fasting) Psalm 32, Isaiah 58:1-12, Hebrews 12:1-14
Breakfast: Toast, Fruit, Tea with Honey
Dinner: Vegetables Jalfrezi (using veggies from our fridge, rather than the specific ones in this recipe), Cous Cous, Harissa - Thursday Psalm 27, Genesis 19:1-3, 12-17, 24-28, I Corinthians 1:1-17
Breakfast: Polenta with Maple Syrup, Milk & Coffee
Dinner: Black Beans with Green Chile Rice, Fruit Plate - Friday Psalms 95 & 40:1-16, Genesis 21:9-21, I Corinthians 1:18
Breakfast: Almond Butter Toast, Fruit, Tea with Honey
Dinner: Asparagus, Goat Cheese and Lemon Pasta, Garlic Bread, Sautéed Chard - Saturday Psalm 28, Genesis 22:1-14, 19, I Corinthians 2
Breakfast: Peanut Butter Pancakes with Butter and Maple Syrup, Fried Eggs, Milk & Coffee
Dinner: Falafel, Hummus, Yogurt Sauce with Feta, Aleppo Pepper and Sumac, Taratoor, Harissa, Khoubz Araby (Pita Bread), Olives, Salad

Labels: Church Year, Faith and Morality, Family, Homemaking, Lent, Mardi Gras, Menu Plans, Tales from the Kitchen
Friday, March 11, 2011
Seven Quick Takes: March 11

1. Jerome and Yasmina insisted on giving up something for Lent. All day Wednesday, Yasmina was telling us that her bunny is for Lent. For all we know, she thinks Lent is a person.
2. Aside from that bit of humor, our children really seem to be learning what Lent is about and how and why we observe the fasting/abstinence and penance. I'm so glad that Rich teaches them these things, too, he is so obedient to the Church's teachings, even though the fasting rules are hardest on him sometimes.
3. I finished what I'm calling my Grapes Scarf for a friend. It's a super secret surprise, though, so I won't say for whom it was made.

I'll get a picture up with it on someone soon.
4. We didn't go to the pancake supper at church this week, but, instead, had our own doughnut feast as we used to do. We thought it would be fun and important to keep some of those traditions, even though we don't have our church family with whom to share it here.
5. However, I tried a new yeast risen doughnut recipe that I found on the web. With pictures. I think she forgot to halve the ingredients. All but the flour. So, I added flour. And added flour. And added flour. Then Rich added some. We ended up with so much dough that I put our regular batch of doughnuts in the freezer without frying it. We'll save those for Bright Week. Instead of two kinds of potato doughnuts, we had one, plus the pear fritters. We have 39 left in the freezer. Yum!
6. We had quite the adventure trying to get to church for the Ash Wednesday service this week. Rich had a meeting that ran late, so I had to pack everyone up to go pick him up from work to go straight to church from there. About two minutes from his work, I realized I'd left the oven on and we'd have to go back. When we turned on our street, the van started to act like it was out of gas, even though it was nearly full, and stopped running. Needless to say, we missed the service.
7. We were thankful, though, that we did have to go back home to turn off that oven, because otherwise, the van might have stopped on the highway. Please be praying that the problems are fixed soon. Fortunately, we have a warranty that will pay for the repairs, we only pay a $60 diagnostic fee, and just this Sunday, we were given the name of a good and reliable repair shop near by our church. Thank God for allowing me to leave the oven on so we'd be home when the van died! I never leave ovens on when we leave. Ever. I also never thought I'd be thankful for that.
Labels: Ash Wednesday, Church Year, Family, Humor, Lent, Mardi Gras, Prayer Requests, Seven Quick Takes
Sunday, March 06, 2011
Menu Plan: March 6 - March 12 Ash Wednesday

- Sunday
Breakfast: Cereal and Milk, Cafe au Lait
Dinner: Bolitas with Bacon and Chorizo, Cornbread, Fried Turnip Slices (from our garden! It survived -19 degree weather) with Garlic, Lemon Pudding Cakes - Monday
Breakfast: Feta with Za'atar and Olive Oil, Toast, Tea and Honey
Dinner: Indian Spiced Steak and Onion Kebabs with Naan and Peach Chutney, Fig Tart - Tuesday
Breakfast: Fried Eggs, Bacon and Toast, Mochas
Dinner: Corndogs*, Seasoned Potato Wedges, Roasted Corn and Butter, Potato Doughnuts, Pear Fritters - Wednesday
Breakfast: Granola and Yogurt, Water
Dinner: Mayacoba Beans and Rice - Thursday
Breakfast: Oatmeal with Raisins and Brown Sugar, Milk and Coffee
Dinner: French Farmers' Soup* with Rustic Croutons - Friday
Breakfast: Kamut Toast with Almond Butter, Milk and Coffee
Dinner: Stations of the Cross and Fish Fry at church - Saturday
Breakfast: Spinach Omelets, Toast, Milk and Coffee
Dinner: Mejeddarah with Onions and Yogurt
Bought:
Parsley
Red Onions
Limes
Poblanos
Cilantro
Pears
Bay Leaves

Labels: Ash Wednesday, Church Year, Family, Homemaking, Lent, Mardi Gras, Menu Plans, Tales from the Kitchen
Tuesday, February 16, 2010
Mardi Gras and Ash Wednesday
However, I have noticed the annual upswing in visitors to the blog searching for Ash Wednesday Menus. I'm not sure if there are any schools that have research projects on this, or if there is just a lot of ignorance about Ash Wednesday. So, I thought I'd clarify. There is no traditional or modern menu for Ash Wednesday, as it is a strict fast day. The menu is water. Very young people (children, under 13, and/or unconfirmed), sick people, pregnant people, nursing mothers, people on medication that require food and other exceptions notwithstanding, the menu for Ash Wednesday is pretty much no food. If, for some reason (one of the exceptions above, or specific direction from a spiritual father) one is not fasting completely, then a meat fast, limited meals and trying to eat less than normal is the norm.
For more encouragement on the Lenten fast, please read this from an Orthodox perspective. I break the rules about not discussing asceticism a little because I blog our menus and a little about our family rule and motivation, but it stems from a desire to encourage and help others as we have been helped by reading about their practice and struggle. I liked what she had to say about laboring within your strength. If our piety is too easy, we aren't being challenged enough, but it isn't a strong man contest either.
Labels: Ash Wednesday, Church Year, Mardi Gras, Tales from the Kitchen
Monday, February 23, 2009
Menu Plan Monday: Ash Wednesday

Ash Wednesday is a strict fast (an actual fast, not the eating a light meal and having snacks "fast"), but only Rich will be observing that this year. I pretty much only get to fast every two or three years now, because of pregnancy or nursing. The older boys will pick at least one meal to fast that day and I will eat lighter. Lent is always a time of growth, but we have a sense that this year will be particularly stretching for us. Please pray for us to have a holy Lent and for the fruit to be great.
This week's menu has a repeat, we ended up having an opportunity to go to an aviation fair on Sunday after church, so we used the children's pizza reward coupons to get them pizzas, and picked up a wood fired pizza from our local place (which was both tastier and cheaper than the fast food pizza) for us. We had the stuff for salads at home, so we were set.
- Monday: Smoked Sausage & Asparagus Saute with Baked Potatoes & Salad, Belated Valentine's Day Dessert for Me and Rich
- Tuesday: Pork Carnitas Burritos with Guacamole - Mardi Gras Doughnut Party with Homemade Potato Doughnuts: Lemon Glazed & Cinnamon Sugar
- Wednesday: Curried Potatoes, Chick Peas & Asparagus with Rice
- Thursday: Chicken, Spinach & Feta Saute with Butter Rolls and Salad
- Friday: Fiesta Casserole, Tomato Rice
- Saturday: Wicked Shrimp, Roasted Asparagus, Pasta & Salad
- Sunday: Ham, Scalloped Potatoes, Steamed Green Beans
What is on your menu this week?
Potato Doughnuts
I have used this baking powder raised version for the past four years at least, but I do like yeast risen doughnuts, so I will be experimenting with a potato dough yeast risen version the next time we do this and make some of each. This recipe is a take off from one I found in Endangered Recipes, which is a great book. I have fiddled with quantities and method and changed the fat used and we've had not a single person who didn't love these.
4 eggs
1 1/2 cups sugar
1/2 cup milk
6 tablespoons butter, melted
2 cups mashed potatoes
6 cups all purpose flour
1/4 cup baking powder (this is a ton, I know - when I first used the recipe, I made a mistake and used tablespoons instead of teaspoons, but it made them huge and light and didn't affect the taste, so I've kept it that way)
2 teaspoons salt
1 teaspoon freshly grated nutmeg
Oil or fat to fry doughnuts
These are much easier to make with a stand mixer or small electric mixer than by hand, but they can be made by hand as well, you will just have to really work to beat the living daylights out of the potato mixture to make it smooth.
In a stand mixer fitted with the whisk attachment, beat eggs until they are a uniform yellow. Mix in sugar and milk and combine thoroughly. Add in butter and mashed potatoes and whisk until smooth.
In a separate bowl, thoroughly combine flour, baking powder, salt and nutmeg. Add dry ingredients to wet ingredients in parts, mixing until flour disappears.
Chill dough, covered, at least an hour, until dough is stiff.
Roll out on a floured surface to a thickness of no more than 1/2 an inch. Cut doughnuts with a doughnut cutter, or in any shapes you like. Let stand to rest for 5-10 minutes.
Heat oil to somewhere between 340 and 350 F. We prefer to cook them a little longer at a slightly lower temperature than quicker at a higher temperature, so the crust doesn't get too brown and the middle is all the way cooked. You will have to turn the doughnuts 99% of the time, though a couple will turn themselves. I've heard that if you cut them in strips and twist them in the middle they will turn themselves, but I haven't done it yet. Drain on a rack and glaze or dust with sugar or cinnamon sugar or cover in ganache or whatever you like to do with your doughnuts.
I haven't tried this yet, but I think if you got rid of the nutmeg and replaced some of the flour with cocoa, you could make chocolate doughnuts with this recipe that would be pretty good.
Labels: Ash Wednesday, Church Year, Homemaking, Lent, Mardi Gras, Menu Plans, Recipes, Tales from the Kitchen
Tuesday, February 08, 2005
Shrove Tuesday
Of course, the children won't be fasting, but I will be making meals of abstinence, so no meat. That way we can talk about what Ash Wednesday means, why we are eating differently (or not eating, as we adults will be), and so on. We will be going to our priest's house for an Ash Wednesday service. It will be later than our normal mid-week activities, but with no coffee hour, food and socialization afterward, we will likely get home earlier anyway.
So begins Lent. I have been contemplating what penances of the will, body and mind I will do, and have come up with a plan. Please pray for me to keep them.
Labels: Church Year, Lent, Mardi Gras


