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Sunday, February 08, 2026

Menu Plan: Sexagesima

It is now Sexagesima Sunday, which just means sixty and refers to the fact that we are within about 60 days of the end of the feast. It is with excitement that we greet Lent, however, even if it is a challenge.

I wrote this a couple years ago, but neither Rich nor I grew up with this pattern of fasting and feasting (though with my Muslim upbringing, it was more familiar to me - just with one month of fasting, rather than four seasons of it and a biweekly observance), but now we cannot imagine our lives without it. What is foreign to us now is the idea that our every day, week, month, year, would not be marked by a remembrance of the events in Christ's life. Even though all of us are aware that doing so is not the norm for most Americans, or people in the West, it is always a surprise to the kids when they find that people are eating meat on a Wednesday or Friday, or when they wish someone a Merry Christmas or Happy Easter the day after the feast and have someone answer that it is over. It is a poverty that they don't mark the time this way, and for all the challenges the fasting and feasting can bring, it is such a gift to us, that we can make even what we put in our mouths part of our devotion and worship of God. It imbues meal times, weekly scheduling, all of it, with the spiritual. It is hard and good - perhaps more good because it is sometimes hard.

It is like the Old Testament admonitions in Exodus and Joshua to do something specifically so your children will ask why and what it means. Talking about Wednesdays, Fridays, Advent and Lent, and why we eat differently then, brings the conversations up about Jesus, His betrayal, His Crucifixion, His Incarnation, His Resurrection. It makes every moment of our lives tied to the life of the Church and the life of Christ. In truth, I am sad for Christians who don't do this out of a mistaken aversion to following rules.

Again, the Lenten "rule" is for each of us and not something to advertise or hammer over someone else's head. It isn't a sin to neglect the fast, so much as it is a pity. It means we won't be so prepared. My hope is that our menu plans and the recipes I share help others get ideas and perhaps be encouraged in their struggle. Above all, I pray that you take advantage of these exercises God grants us through His Church.

Because Valentine's Day is before Lent this year, we can celebrate with a little more festivity. Because we are older and don't like crowds, we are doing that for lunch instead of dinner out with everyone else and overpriced smarminess. It will be good to have a date together, though, because we've been dealing with a lot in our health and family that is just hard.

We've had a challenging month. There is a lot to pray for us, though most of it we cannot share. Just think of us in prayer, because God knows best.

What is on your menu this week? If you want a recipe, ask and I will provide it as soon as I can. If there are any starred recipes, I will follow up separately with a weekly recipe round up on Saturday.

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Sunday, February 23, 2025

Menu Plan: Sexagesima

It is now Sexagesima Sunday, which just means sixty and refers to the fact that we are within about 60 days of the end of the feast. It is with excitement that we greet Lent, however, even if it is a challenge. This year, especially, as we fast and celebrate East and West together, gives another dimension to the joy of the struggle.

I wrote this last year, but neither Rich nor I grew up with this pattern of fasting and feasting (though with my Muslim upbringing, it was more familiar to me - just with one month of fasting, rather than three seasons of it and a biweekly observance), but now we cannot imagine our lives without it. What is foreign to us now is the idea that our every day, week, month, year, would not be marked by a remembrance of the events in Christ's life. Even though all of us are aware that doing so is not the norm for most Americans, or people in the West, it is always a surprise to the kids when they find that people are eating meat on a Wednesday or Friday, or when they wish someone a Merry Christmas or Happy Easter the day after the feast and have someone answer that it is over. It is a poverty that they don't mark the time this way, and for all the challenges the fasting and feasting can bring, it is such a gift to us, that we can make even what we put in our mouths part of our devotion and worship of God. It imbues meal times, weekly scheduling, all of it, with the spiritual. It is hard and good - perhaps more good because it is sometimes hard.

It is like the Old Testament admonitions in Exodus and Joshua to do something specifically so your children will ask why and what it means. Talking about Wednesdays, Fridays, Advent and Lent, and why we eat differently then, brings the conversations up about Jesus, His betrayal, His Crucifixion, His Incarnation, His Resurrection. It makes every moment of our lives tied to the life of the Church and the life of Christ. In truth, I am sad for Christians who don't do this out of a mistaken aversion to following rules.

Again, the Lenten "rule" is for each of us and not something to advertise or hammer over someone else's head. It isn't a sin to neglect the fast, so much as it is a pity. It means we won't be so prepared. My hope is that our menu plans and the recipes I share help others get ideas and perhaps be encouraged in their struggle. Above all, I pray that you take advantage of these exercises God grants us through His Church.

This past week, things were moved around a bit, so I shifted the lengua tacos to this week. We are still eating much from our freezers, and trying to use up more meat and dairy so we won't have that much left out of our freezers by next week. We are running out of time to eat our dairy and egg and other treats.

We are finally warming up again here, by which I mean that it is now in the 40s during the day. I'll take it. As we will be home this year, we can have our doughnut night again next week, after skipping it last year, which brings everyone great joy.

What is on your menu this week? If you want a recipe, ask and I will provide it as soon as I can. If there are any starred recipes, I will follow up separately with a weekly recipe round up on Saturday.

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Sunday, February 04, 2024

Menu Plan: Sexagesima

It is now the second week of the pre-Lenten season. Sexagesima means 60 and simply refers to the fact that we are within 60 days of the feast. For us in the West, it is a week and a half until the Lenten observance begins. In the East, this year, it is not for another six weeks. We are far apart this year, which grieves me. The West still preserves the East's understanding of easing into the fast in Septuagesima and Sexagesima, and even with the Mardi Gras traditions of eating doughnuts or pancakes to use up the last of the eggs, milk and butter, which does point to the earlier and more authentic practice. One day, I hope that the observances of Forgiveness Sunday and Ash Wednesday can be joined in some way and I pray that one day we will all observe and celebrate together.

Unfortunately (or fortunately?), this year, we will not be hosting our big doughnut feast on Mardi Gras, because of the upcoming wedding. Dominic and Shawn are officially converting to Orthodoxy, so their wedding will not be during Lent, so we will be suspending our fast for the Saturday and Sunday of their celebration. It is wrong to fast when the bridegroom is with us and we certainly are not going to put a solemn cast on their joyous day. As the fasts of the Church are a school given to us for our own growth, so we are prepared in body, mind, and soul for the spiritual battles of this world. It isn't a sin to neglect the fast, so much as it is a pity. It means we won't be so prepared. However, breaking it for celebrating a wedding with someone is neither a sin nor a pity and we rejoice to share with them. As I said before, because of our worshiping in the Orthodox mission here in town, we will be observing the Lenten rule on a few Saturdays after our Paschal feast, so it all works out in the end.

I know I have said this before, but neither Rich nor I grew up with this pattern of fasting and feasting (though with my Muslim upbringing, it was more familiar to me - just with one month of fasting, rather than three seasons of it and a biweekly observance), but now we cannot imagine our lives without it. What is foreign to us now is the idea that our every day, week, month, year, would not be marked by a remembrance of the events in Christ's life. Even though all of us are aware that doing so is not the norm for most Americans, or people in the West, it is always a surprise to the kids when they find that people are eating meat on a Wednesday or Friday, or when they wish someone a Merry Christmas or Happy Easter the day after the feast and have someone answer that it is over. It is a poverty that they don't mark the time this way, and for all the challenges the fasting and feasting can bring, it is such a gift to us, that we can make even what we put in our mouths part of our devotion and worship of God. It imbues meal times, weekly scheduling, all of it, with the spiritual. It is hard and good - perhaps more good because it is sometimes hard.

It is like the Old Testament admonition in Exodus and Joshua to do something specifically so your children will ask why and what it means. Talking about Wednesdays, Fridays, Advent and Lent, and why we eat differently then, brings the conversations up about Jesus, His betrayal, His Crucifixion, His Incarnation, His Resurrection. It makes every moment of our lives tied to the life of the Church and the life of Christ. In truth I am sad for Christians who don't do this out of a mistaken aversion to following rules.

We will feast well this week, though. The Anglican church where Rich serves Evening Prayer is hosting members of a Sudanese church that meets in the Tri-Cities, and we are preparing a feast for them. It will be glorious, with their choir joining our small parish, and joining us in singing praise to God and worshiping our Lord in the Eucharist. All week, our meals are going to be a little decadent, and we are using up the butter and eggs, milk and cream, sweets and meats, to make room for more Lenten fare. The Grocery Outlet often has good deals on foods that are appropriate for the Lenten fast (aside from the basics of fruits, vegetables, grains, and so on), and as the rule does not insist that the food we eat taste bad, only that it involves certain sacrifices (worship), we will take advantage of those good deals. While we should not focus all our attention on the food, because those guidelines are a training, and not the end of the training, I do find that planning it out ahead of time does help me keep my focus on prayer and charity, because I don't have to spend so much time thinking of what to make. Again, there is a balance to be struck.

This week Metropolitan Saba of the Antiochian Orthodox Church will be here, so we are having liturgy Friday night instead of Saturday morning. We have loads of events this week, actually, which makes our preparing for the wedding a little more busy. East and West are not fasting and feasting together this year. We will one day pray and feast together always. Pray with me for the reunification of the Church. Glory to God!

What is on your menu this week? If you want a recipe, ask and I will provide it as soon as I can. If there are any starred recipes, I will follow up separately with a weekly recipe round up on Saturday.

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Sunday, February 12, 2023

Menu Plan: Sexagesima

This is the second Sunday in the pre-Lenten, preparatory, season. Again, the name simply refers to the number of days. We are within 60 days of the Paschal feast, and sexagesima means 60. It is a week and a half until Lent begins in the West. While we aren't scaling back in the same manner as the East, we are trying both to enjoy the foods we will be bidding farewell to at that time and prepare ourselves for that by not overly indulging right now. It's a balance of treating ourselves and not gorging ourselves. This is the same balance we will need to strike during Bright Week, in some ways, as we go back to feasting and then normal eating.

However, this is a great time of scaling back and using the meats and treats in our freezers. We've gotten out a couple bigger pieces of meat to use that means we have more room for the ducks when they are butchered, and then the turkeys when it is their time. It is also helping us to rearrange a little so the foods that will be more appropriate to the fast are in our inside freezer and ready for us to use. I recently found out that Biscoff cookies, like Oreo cookies, are Lenten. This will make for a great treat somewhere around the middle of Lent, when we are struggling. I have a package at the ready. Ritz crackers are also Lenten, but they aren't as good as Biscoff cookies. Our Grocery Outlet has some wonderful, and Lenten, dairy free frozen chocolate bars that I am eyeing, too. They are made with real food, and coconut milk rather than cream and milk. If they are there on my next shopping trip, I will likely pick some up for the final weeks of Lent, when it is harder on everyone. Overall, we do try to eat simply and avoid meat/dairy substitutes, but those are still fine and can help get us over the speed bumps that come up occasionally. Remember that fasting food (abstinent food, really) does not have to taste bad, it just has to follow the guidelines, but we should not focus all our attention on the food, because those guidelines are a training, not the end of the training. I do find that planning it out ahead of time does help me keep my focus on prayer and charity, because I don't have to spend so much time thinking of what to make. Again, there is a balance to be struck.

Our Eastern brethren have just finished their fast free week, and are beginning Meatfare week, which is their final week of eating meat and fish. Next week will be Cheesefare week for them, which will be their final week of eating dairy and egg, oil and wine. Then their Lent will begin five days after the West. The West still preserves these concepts in Septuagesima and Sexagesima, and even with the Mardi Gras traditions of eating doughnuts or pancakes to use up the last of the eggs, milk and butter, which does point to the earlier and more authentic practice. One day, I hope that the observances of Forgiveness Sunday and Ash Wednesday can be joined in some way and I pray that one day we will all observe and celebrate together.

What is on your menu this week? If you want a recipe, ask and I will provide it as soon as I can. If there are any starred recipes, I will follow up separately with a weekly recipe round up on Saturday.

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Sunday, February 20, 2022

Menu Plan: Sexagesima

Next Wednesday is Ash Wednesday! There are also only nine days left until our Mardi Gras doughnut night. We are excited about that, and even about the spritual school of the fast. We are enjoying our pre-fasting time as much as we can right now. Rich wanted us to get some fancy barbecue and pizza from a restaurant here in town before the fast, so we are doing that this week. They are going to work with us to accomodate Jerome's food intolerances, which is fantastic.

Jerome gets cheese back tomorrow, and we are all thrilled for him. We start his test of coriander/cilantro this week, and I really hope he has no trouble with that, because we eat it all the time, normally. It will make Lent much easier for us if he can eat that, too. Then, we try the milk one more time, to see how it goes now that the weather has calmed down a little.

What is on your menu this week? If you want a recipe, ask and I will provide it as soon as I can. If there are any starred recipes, I will follow up separately with a weekly recipe round up on Saturday.

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Sunday, February 07, 2021

Menu Plan: Sexagesima

I mentioned last week how this whole past year has felt like one long Lent, and it occurred to me that Lent is our spiritual preparation for doing spiritual battle and the hard work of growing His Kingdom. That readjusts my attitude toward it a little. It's not that I look forward to any such battle, but I appreciate that we can be prepared for it. We are officially in the countdown to Lent this week. Technically, we were last week, but with the feast of the Purification and the end of the Christmas season, it was more like a blend of the two. Next week contains Ash Wednesday, and the beginning of the Great Fast.

We are glad that Valentine's Day falls both on a Sunday and before the beginning of Lent this year. Rich was able to buy a ticket to an online concert of Shostakovich's music for Saturday, so we will have a Valentine's concert and dinner then.

This week through next Tuesday, we are making and eating a lot of sweets and treats that we will not have for more than six weeks. It's funny, because Rich did not grow up eating with the Church in this way, and I certainly didn't, but now, it seems absolutely foreign not to mark time and remember God in even what we eat. Our kids find themselves surprised that people eat meat on Wednesdays or Fridays, just because it is such a normal part of their lives, and we have to remind them that not everyone marks Christ's betrayal and Crucifixion each week, even other Christians. This pattern of eating and having to think about what we are eating has imbued even mealtime and days of the week with the spiritual. That is a good thing. Even though it is a hard thing. Maybe because it is a hard thing. It is like the Old Testament admonition in Exodus and Joshua to do something specifically so your children will ask why and what it means. Talking about Wednesdays, Fridays, Advent and Lent, and why we eat differently then, brings the conversations up about Jesus, His betrayal, His Crucifixion, His Incarnation, His Resurrection.

What is on your menu this week? If you want a recipe, ask and I will provide it as soon as I can. If there are any starred recipes, I will follow up separately with a weekly recipe round up on Saturday. Linking to Menu Plan Monday

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